IS HE THE RIGHT ONE ?
Gwendelyn R
Every year there are 957,200 divorces in the United States. That means, every minute two couples break up, two families are shattered. On the plus side this keeps a huge number of people employed and entertained- psychologists, counselors, antidepressant manufacturers, cops, child support enforcers, lawyers, nosy neighbors, malicious in-laws, real estate agents, legals, paralegals, bail agents, collection agents, pawnbrokers, talk show hosts, tabloid editors.. the list goes on and on. When a couple breaks up, on an average twenty people stand to benefit from it financially. In other words the divorce industry employs more people than the auto industry.
There is a reason couples break up so easily. The bond that broke was flawed from the beginning. It was meant to break. It was a mismatch from the beginning. Thanks to bizarre laws, male-female interaction in the United States has become so abnormal and criminalized, the average man is afraid to compliment a woman on what she is wearing for fear of being accused of being a pervert. The average women meets countless eligible and compatible men at work, but the legal dog-leashes hold them apart effectively, forcing them to behave like robotic eunuchs instead. Instead they look for totally incompatible partners in the worst possible places, such as bars and online dating sites. They meet and hook up with individuals who are fundamentally poles apart, intellectually, culturally and professionally. And sex is simply not enough to hold two individuals together. Many a couple comes together because they are both afraid of 'being alone'.
The system is broken, and no one is going to fix it in the next thousand years, so let us talk about how we can make sure that the person you encountered is worthy of you and compatible with you. One age old system that is used the world over is astrology. It may seem laughable, but if you look around at stable and happy marriages that you know about and check their horoscopes you will find that they are usually between compatible signs.
The current system puts eligible women at such tremendous disadvantage, where we don't know who is the right guy and we end up guessing our way into disaster. More and more women are remaining single well into their menopausal years.
Here is a book that may help: IS HE THE RIGHT ONE? You can download it free. If you like it, please feel free to pass it around to other women who could use it, and even guys could use it to help them find the right woman.
